Make sure you join the ClanUK chat channel mentioned earlier in the thread. I'm in as Alf Saddlebags, Gallante in a Tristan at the moment.
So far I've spent more time training skills than flying but am getting to the point where I think I've got most of the basic skills sorted (I've been using certificates to make sure I have at least basic coverage in the areas that sound important.
Just finished the military career missions and have been given the lead to the "Sisters of Eve epic quest arc". I think I'll do the other career training missions first though as they seem to give decent items and cash to get you started.
Top tip, the military career tutorials give you two new ships. One early on (forgotten it's name) which helps with the missions and a Tristan frigate at the end which seems a pretty decent frig so don't spend anything buying a new ship early on. You seem to get a good mix of skill books and items as well from the missions (and indeed from looting the rats wrecks).
I need to go back to a rookie system and complete the main tutorial as well. For some reason I seemed to get branched off to the careers tutorials without having finished the basic stuff so I still look there looking at the screen looking confused from time to time. I'm sure there's a lot easier ways to do stuff than the way I'm doing it at the moment (i seem to be relying on right clicking on stuff a lot for context menus).
So far everyone seems really helpfully, in particular the CUK channel peeps, but most in general seem to appreciate what a learning curve it is and are happy to help with advice.
Still, fun, and it'd be nice to have some more noobs about - gives the other someone else to point at and laugh at